Thursday, February 28, 2013

Some Days...

Some days as a mom are good, and some days are like this...

Being a mom, or being a parent I should say, of small children is difficult. Some days I love being home with my boys and some days, I feel as if I just can't possibly make it through the day. At Mops this week, we had tea and testimony. Many of the mothers in my Mops group shared their struggles and triumphs as parents. Let me just say it is refreshing to hear that others have similar struggles.

Before having kids, I had this vision of what being a mom would be like and trust me, I thought it would be all sunshine and rainbows. It's not. As a matter of fact, it's about as far from sunshine and rainbows as possible. It's endless worry, exhaustion, frustration, and constantly feeling like I am barely doing an adequate job.

So, if you are having "one of those days," chin up, friends. Believe me, you are not alone!

Friday, February 22, 2013

Lookin' for Buffalo

Kris and Liam went lookin' for buffalo today. Both of our boys love doing this with Kris!

Officially a Toddler

Isn't this just the cutest picture you have ever seen in your life? I bought these adorable seersucker pants and suspenders for Liam at Crazy 8 this week. He is going to be stylin' this spring!
 
I guess I can say that Liam is officially a toddler. Although he is probably much more than that. Not only is he "toddling" around, but he is walking and running these days. He is beginning to talk so much too--just today, he said "thank you." (It was a little muddled, but I could tell that is what he was saying--the sitter heard it too!) He is also beginning to make animal sounds. He really likes the cow sound.
 
In addition to all of these things, I also took the bottle away from him this week. I know, I know, he is already 14 months old. I should have done it sooner. But I didn't, for a couple of reasons. First of all, he loved his bottle. I mean really, really loved it. Kale gave his bottle up before he was 1...just stopped taking it and would only take the sippy. Not Liam, every time he saw a bottle, he would start reaching for it and crying if we didn't give it him fast enough. I thought, "well, if he loves something so much. Who am I to take it away from him." So, I decided to let him keep the bottle a bit longer. But that's not the real reason I let him keep his bottle for so long...giving up the bottle means a child is definitely not a baby anymore. It makes me so sad to think Liam's "baby days" are behind him. I mean, where on earth did the time go? Luckily, when I am putting him to bed, he will still let him rock him for a few minutes, but I know within the next few months, he won't even want that. It reminds me of a poem I read once:
Oh, so true.
 

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Valentine's Day

I did not take many pics on Valentine's Day and the ones I did manage to take did not turn out well. We got a few little gifts for the boys. They each got a new train for their train set, a few candies, and some new books. Kale also got a drawing pad and some special pens. The night before Valentine's Day, I taught my ESL class (adult continuing ed) and a few of my sweet students brought me stuffed animals and a small balloon. I put the stuffed animals in the boys' gifts and the small balloon in Liam's bag.  Oh my goodness--this was the wrong thing to do! The boys fought nonstop over the balloon. After naps on Valentine's Day, we ended up going to the Dollar Tree to get each of the boys a helium balloon.
 
The boys were also spoiled by their grandparents on V-day. They received special packages from both sets of grandparents. Kale looks for a package in the mail each time we check it now. He is disappointed a lot. :) He and Liam do both really enjoy opening the junk mail though!   

I made special heart-shaped chocolate chip pancakes for breakfast. Neither of them would eat the pancakes, so Kris and I ate them! As a special treat, I took the boys to Sweet Frog for some frozen yogurt...Kale's favorite!

Kris and I exchanged gifts on Valentine's evening and had a wonderful steak dinner at home. Kris grilled fillets that he bought at fresh market and they were delicious! On Saturday night, we went to my favorite Richmond restaurant, Bookbinders. I love the tuna there! Actually, I love just about everything about bookbinders!

Sunday, February 10, 2013

They're Growing Up...

Wow. My boys are really growing up. It makes me sad. Liam is looking and acting less and less like a baby and more and more like a little boy. Liam has started putting his dirty clothes into the laundry basket. The first time he did this, it blew me away. Kris stripped him down for a bath. Liam stood up, picked up the dirty clothes, walked over to the hamper, and put the clothes in. Wow. So big! He also goes to get his own shoes from the shoe basket. Keep in mind, there are probably 25 pairs of shoes in this basket. He can pick his shoes out from everyone else's. Blows my mind. He is also really beginning to fight naps. At least a few times a week, he will refuse to nap (not good news for this momma). I went in the other day and he had stripped off his pants and thrown them over the side of his crib onto the floor. He did this not once, but twice.
 
Kale is really coming along in the communication department. I love having little conversations with him. We are actually beginning to be able to reason with him, which is a huge blessing. Kale is also starting to eat better--praise the Lord! He now has a total of 3 meals that he will eat with minimal fighting. This is big for us...really big!

So this little man--how can this next series of pictures not make you laugh? I took the boys to get haircuts on Friday afternoon. Liam had hair all over his shirt when we got home, so I took his shirt off. He proceeded to walk over and put Kale's "best big brother" medal on. I told Kris he looked like a little Olympic athlete.


Playing football with daddy.



And the fits have begun...I have always said that Liam is more laid back than Kale, but I recant. He is not. Both of my boys are so strong-willed, it's not even funny (wonder where they would get such traits?). The terrible two tantrums have begun, at 13 months, no less. And oh when Liam cries, he can really cry! It is so sad and he cries real tears. Every single time. It's impressive.


Both of my boys are such posers. Kale was modeling different poses on the stepping stool for the camera.

Oh and speaking of posing--Liam actually said, "Cheese" the other day when  I pulled out the camera. He knows exactly what to do when he sees that flash.

Today was a pretty nice day so we took advantage of it and hit the park. After, we enjoyed yummy ice-cream. Kale's favorite--Liam doesn't love it. Surprisingly, Liam is not much of a fan of sweets...just the opposite of Kale.

Going to the park with Kale is a little nerve-wracking. He is a monkey. For such a little guy, he is very adept at all things physical. We actually had his "parent-teacher" conference at school this week. He is doing well, no bad marks. His teachers shared the results of the Brigance test (which is a Kindergarten readiness exam). In the gross motor category, Kale was off the charts. The teacher mentioned he can do certain "physical" things, like climbing and riding a bike, that none of the other kids can do...and he is the youngest in his class. And that's why we had a broken arm before the age of two. He's adventurous!





Liam's famous look...
 

Bacon Wrapped Pork Tenderloin

I made this recipe in the crockpot this weekend and Kris loved it! He ate it for dinner the evening I made it and then for breakfast ad lunch the next day. It's super easy and delicious. A definite must-try!

Take a pork tenderloin and wrap it with bacon.

Mix the following marinade together:

3/4 c. of soy sauce
3/4 c. of white sugar
1 tsp. of vinegar
2 cloves of garlic (I used a heaping tablespoon of minced garlic)
1 small onion, diced
black pepper to taste

Dump the marinade over the top of the bacon-wrapped pork tenderloin. Let marinate for 3-4 hours (I left mine overnight.)

Cook in the slow cooker on low for 6-8 hours.

Enjoy!

Saturday, February 2, 2013

This week...







Liam has really been giving me a hard time about napping. He was so exhausted the other day, he feel asleep in the high chair.





We had some really nice weather this week. The boys enjoyed time outside in shorts and T-shirts.


Liam loves the sandbox. I was pleasantly surprised to find he doesn't eat the sand.


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Basketball

Kale is teaching Liam to play basketball. Kris is in trouble.

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Videos

Everything is a leaf blower around here! Liam and Kale both did this at this age.

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